Sometimes You Must Encourage Yourself

Be encouraged, God loves you. He didn't put you in the situation you are in by chance, there's a purpose! Be of good courage, face what you don't know with the certainty and assurance that God has ordered your steps. When David was being chased by Saul and he was hiding in caves, and mountains he wrote some of the most beautiful psalms (songs). He did this, not so that you and I would have something to read on Sundays, but as a way to encourage himself and remind himself of who God is. Draw that parallel to you, and your situation. You may in fact be in a situation to where you feel like you are being persecuted, , chased, or maybe you just feel alone. God was with David, and He is with you. Take David's example and encourage yourself, remind yourself of who God is; in the midst of the situation. 

~Erroyl

SALT

Let’s talk about sex

Let’s talk about SEX!

That got your attention, didn’t it?

    I have a friend who is struggling with SEX in marriage…

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    Before I begin, I must say that this devotional message is specifically pertaining to Christian, married couples, and those persons who hope to one day be a God-pleasing, Christian couple.

    Next,  If you are not married, in the eyes of God, you should not be having sex. Stop it, ask for forgiveness, and don’t do it again.

    Finally, nothing here condones any kind of abuse, or control.

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    I have a married friend who is a Christian, and who is struggling with the frequency of sex in her marriage. That’s right, she wants sex more often than her Christian husband (It happens more often than you might think). She asked me, “What does the Bible say about withholding sex? I mean, we are married. Honestly, I have felt tempted to cheat at times, when guys hit on me, or even just notice me. I mean, not really to cheat, I guess. But, tempted to indulge in flirting back...” The short answer is that her husband does NOT have the right to withhold himself, thereby depriving her AND opening the door to Satan in their marriage. That “temptation to flirt” is Satan putting his left foot across the threshold and into the doorway of their marriage. His right foot is busy getting the husband to turn the “lack of sexual desire” into a habitual inaction.

    Let’s be clear. There is more to intimacy than sex alone. There are more ways to show affection. And there are times, of course, when a spouse has the right to refuse sex.  This rejection should be delivered in love. Even still, a rejection delivered the correct way does not supersede the fact that, rejection hurts. How a person is physically, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually should be considered.

   Though they may be accepted, no one really wants “obligation sex”, or “one-sided sex”. These are given grudgingly and make the recipient feel guilty. Doesn’t the Bible say that God loves a cheerful giver. I know, I know, Paul was referring to giving as a way to support the ministry...but, is not marriage a ministry? Yes, it is. Reread 2 Corinthians 9, and focus on verses 7-8, and ask God if/can both verses apply to sex in marriage. Verse 8 displays “all” rather conspicuously, does it not?

    Sex, within marriage, is important. It is powerfully cohesive to the marital covenant. The act replenishes and revitalizes the individuals, and reasserts the promise of “two being one” in Him. With that level of importance, is there any wonder why the enemy tries to use sex  (lack of sex, perversion of sex, extramarital sex) to destroy marriages. Why do we greatly desire to have sex before marriage, but that desire lags after the nuptials?

    I referred her to 1 Cor 7 with instructions that they should each read and study it.  

1 Corinthians 7:3–5 (NKJV): 3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

We love you, and we are praying for you.

~SALT,  Pastor, Dr. Erroyl McGinty, Jr., and Sis Pinky McGinty

Sis Pinky’s Prayer: Thank you Lord for transparency in ALL things so that we can be set free in ALL areas of our lives. Please, Holy Spirit, teach us married couples how to live lives pleasing to God.

In Jesus’ Name we pray,

Amen

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This link is to ©2018 FAITHFUL MAN® and is a great resource for this topic.

Guard your heart— Open hearted

Guard your heart, or open-hearted???

Is it Christ-like to "love from afar?” Is it a necessary evil? Can we fulfill the great commission with walls around our hearts??

Self-preservation versus self-sacrifice. I know that's tough, so give real thought.

If we are supposed to go to every nation and preach the gospel, how can we do so with our hearts walled off? The Bible also tells us to "guard our hearts." The answer is not quite so simple. It has to do with seasons, maturity, and temporal stasis (is it necessary for things to be temporary, or permanent based on circumstances, we slow [pay attention to details, speed excess time...] the things that need to be slowed, and rush through the others).

The season of your life will dictate how open you are to be toward people. If you are young in the word, then you are more susceptible to negative influences and therefore you should not be very open. This however, does not exempt you from fulfilling the great commission. It only means that you are in a season of preparation, education, and equipping. That season can last 5 days, 5 years, or 50 years. That’s up to the Father, and how long it takes us to “get it”.

The next season, step in maturity, is the season of battle, Also known as harvest. If you never enter a season of harvest you have not nurtured the seeds sown into you. In this season you actually put to work the things that you have learned. This is where your faith is tested and grows, the initial season of planting is where your faith was sown.

So, as it says in the book of James, faith without works is DEAD. Without this season of harvest, battle, the faith that was sown into you dies. This is why we enter negative cycles, and also why generational curses are allowed to take root. Once we are saved, according to 1st Peter we are adopted into a new bloodline with an "incorruptible seed". This does not stop the enemy from trying to attack.... but, hallelujah NO weapon formed against me shall prosper.

We love you, and we are praying with you.

Dr. McGinty and Sis Pinky

~SALT

Sis. Pinky’s Prayer: Thank you God for giving us discernment so that we’ll know which season we’re in, and we can act accordingly. We love and praise you.

In Jesus’s Name,

Amen.

Trust God for the Transition

Trust God for the Transition pt.2

When it is time for a change, trusting in the Lord is absolutely paramount to the success of the transition. The story of Abraham (at that time named Abram) is always remarkable to me. God told him to go. No direction... not "go to the east as far as the sun rises". No, “travel south for three days with a herd of migratory camels…”, or, “walk west until you’re too tired to travel on.” Not even a, “go down the mountainside and take a left at the Wal*Mart and wait next to the Olive Garden until you hear from me”... nothing like that. God only said, “Go forth from your country, and from your relatives and from your father’s house, to the land which I will show you.” Gen 12:1  and Abraham went.
We even struggle with simple changes to our regular routine. It can be difficult for us to alter our route to work if we feel God instructing us to go a different way. Or, if on our way to the collection basket at church we feel the Lord saying to give a different amount other than what we’ve already planned. We question if it’s really God.

We struggle with these small things. So naturally, a bigger change will create more anxiety. Whether large or small, they require the same key ingredient for success; Trust in God.

We must learn to 1) trust God through the transition, 2) trust that He has prepared the destination for our arrival, and 3) trust that He is preparing us (hearts and minds) while on the journey, to be ready for the destination. Our hearts must be ready for the transition, AND the destination! We can only achieve that by trusting in God.

We love you, and we are praying with you.

~Dr.  McGinty

SALT (Saved, Anchored, Living, Transformed)

Sis. Pinky’s Prayer:

Thank you God, for being sovereign! You know the plans you have for us; plans for us to prosper and not fail. Thank you for increasing our measures of faith and trust in you. Help us Great Jehovah to trust you with every aspect of our lives. We thank you in advance,

Amen

Freedom

I have on my table a violin string. It is free. I twist one end of it and it responds. It is free. But it is not free to do what a violin string is supposed to do—to produce music. So I take it, fix it in my violin and tighten it until it is taut. Only then is it free to be a violin string.

-Sir Rabindranath

Are you in place? In the correct place? Sure, you're free to do whatever you like. If you are not in the will of God in your purpose in life. You are free, but not free to do what you were created to do. That's why there is an emptiness, a void in your life. You can put whatever vice in it that you like but it would never fill that hole. Why not? That hole is the size of God. The Bible puts it this way in I Cor 10:24, "Everything is permissible"--but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"--but not everything is constructive..."

-SALT

Pastor Erroyl

Fasting: Necessary?

From time to time Christians SHOULD fast. There is a spiritual need to fast. It is not a point of salvation, so don’t think that if you do not fast you go to hell. That’s not what I’m saying.  But there are certainly strongholds, barriers, demonic interventions, tribulations, boundaries in your life when fasting is absolutely the needed tool.  

(Matt 17:21 "But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting." ~Jesus). Jesus says that more is needed in particular situations than just prayer.  Of course, there are tools that we need in addition to prayer. Fasting, praising, working, etc.  but for some reason, we have been taught /conditioned to think that prayer is all that is needed. But, that is not what the Bible says. Nor is it what Jesus taught.

This is a very deep subject, and cannot possibly be covered with brevity. So, this post is only to get the cogs turning, the boulders sliding, the river flowing.... the questions coming. These questions are really inward. Of course, you may ask any question that you want of me, and I will do my best to answer. You can do it publicly, or a private message. But, most of the questions should be generated by God, in you and to you.

Some preachers/teachers of the Word will disagree with what I am about to say.  When I fast, I include Facebook, WordsWithFriends, etc. and anything else that I feel lead to forego. From my understanding, some preachers/teachers/denominations believe that food is the only thing to abstain from (I assume they also include consented marital relations). I’ve not had in-depth conversations with them, so I do not want to misrepresent their thoughts. (If you are one of them, let’s chat privately so I can gain understanding.) I have heard of people fasting from only chocolate, only Coke, only Coffee, only etc. etc. 

When we fast, we should certainly remove things that we know are occupying space in our timeline that belongs to God. The point of fasting is sacrificing and depending on God. Sacrificing the flesh from what it craves. Essentially when you crave something, you are admitting that you want it...badly. Simply put, when you fast from food (a traditional fast), you are severing the link between the body/flesh and dependency.  You are rerouting that dependency back to where it should be, on God. Throughout the fast, you should be constantly in prayer. You should not introduce influences from music, movies, friends, family, TV. You should not listen to particular types of music, nor watch particular types of movies, etc. You should do your best to have a holy environment. I do believe if you are earnestly fasting from coffee because you recognize that you depend on “that morning cup” more than God, then I believe God honors that intent. Does that mean you stay there? Fasting from coffee for 30 days. Of course not. We should always strive to do better.

We love you, and we are praying for you. 

SALT

~Dr. and Mrs. McGinty 

Sis Pinky’s Prayer:

Thank you for the opportunity to abstain from worldly pleasures and get more connected to you, Alpha and Omega of it all! Give us a desire to fast and the willpower to follow through once we’ve committed to it. We know that we are overcomers in you! 

In Jesus’s name,

Amen

Hurry up, and wait!

Oxymoron anyone? Probably the single most difficult command that God ever uttered, was to "wait", "be still", etc. We have become accustomed to acting, going, or doing something. We find it quite perplexing to "wait on the Lord", or "be still and know that I am God".    For this lesson, let's look into the Old Testament at 1 Sam 13: 9-14.